Dildos, Dongs & Strap-Ons

Body safe siliconeFlared basesPlain packaging, always
Barely · Dildos and harnesses

Three pieces

No motor, no charging, nothing to learn.

Shape, weight and material doing the work. The oldest category in this shop and the one where the material matters most, because there is nothing else between you and it.

See the three → Or read the sizing guide →

Not sure which? Ask before you buy and an educator answers.
Why the range is three

This is the category most shops pad.

Search anywhere else and you will find hundreds, in materials nobody will name, at sizes chosen by a marketing department.

Almost all of it is TPE, TPR or jelly, which are porous, cannot be sanitised, and are exactly what our body safe standard exists to exclude. Once you apply that standard, the category gets small quickly.

So there are three. One classic shape, one made to be shared, and a harness that actually fits. Between them they cover solo use, partnered use, and strap-on play, which is most of what people are here for.

The range

Three pieces, three jobs.

All three are body safe silicone, all three are in stock, and all three sit in both Hers and Beyond because none of them assume whose body is which.

Form

Classic shape · start here

Form

Sometimes you want fullness and nothing else. Nothing to charge, nothing to figure out, and the cheapest way into the category.

$39See Form →
Twin

Double ended

Twin

Made to be shared, with enough flex to work in real positions rather than only the one on the packaging.

$49See Twin →
Anchor

Harness

Anchor

Adjustable enough to actually fit, and steady enough to forget you are wearing it. The part most harnesses get wrong.

$79See Anchor →
The buying guide

Six things worth knowing before you choose.

Size is the one everybody worries about and the one that matters least. These are the ones that decide whether you keep using it.

Girth over length Girth is what you feel. Length past a certain point is simply length you are not using, and going too long is a far more common regret than going too short. If you are unsure, go narrower than you think.
Firmness changes everything A softer silicone with more give feels considerably larger than a firm one at the same measurement, because it moves with you. Two pieces with identical dimensions can be completely different experiences.
Flared base, if there is any chance of anal use The anus can draw an object in and has no natural stopping point. This is the one rule with a hospital attached. If anal is a possibility now or later, buy something with a flared base from the start.
Harness fit is about the base, not the waist Most harness disappointment comes from the ring size, not the strap. The base of the piece has to sit securely in the ring without being forced. Check the base diameter against the ring before assuming a combination works.
Water based lubricant, always Silicone lubricant degrades silicone toys over time, and every piece here is silicone. Water based, generously, reapplied.
Sharing means cleaning in between Between people, and between anal and vaginal use, every time. Non porous silicone can be properly sanitised, which is the entire reason we do not stock anything porous.
How to choose

Start with who is using it, and how.

Three pieces means the decision is mercifully short.

  • On your own, or with a partner using it on you: Form at $39.
  • Sharing between two people: Twin at $49.
  • Strap-on play: Anchor at $79, plus Form. Check the base sits in the ring before you commit to the combination.
  • Want vibration as well? That is a different category. Seven pieces here, from $39.
  • Anal is the plan? Start with Still at $49 instead, which is a graduated set with flared bases.

Using them well

  • More lubricant than you think, reapplied rather than pushed through.
  • Warm it first if the room is cold. Silicone holds temperature and the shock is not pleasant.
  • Slower than feels necessary, especially with anything new.
  • Discomfort is information. Stop, add lubricant, or go smaller.

Cleaning and storage

  • Warm water and a mild soap before and after every use, or a dedicated toy cleaner.
  • Between partners and between orifices, every time. This is a genuine infection route.
  • Dry fully before storing.
  • Store separately, not touching other silicone, which can react and leave both pieces tacky.

Full detail is in Caring for Your Sex Toy, the Guide to Materials and the Guide to Personal Lubricant.

The Barely promise

Faulty in ninety days? Replaced. Packaging not plain? Free.

  • Ninety day replacement. Faulty or stops working inside ninety days and a replacement ships. No forms, no return postage.
  • Plain packaging, or it is free. Unmarked outer, neutral sender name, discreet statement descriptor.
  • Body safe, and stated. Material, cleaning and lubricant compatibility on every product page. Read the standard.
  • Ask first, always. Questions before you buy are welcome, including whether any of this is for you.
Common questions

Answered plainly.

What size should I get?
Smaller than the internet suggests. Girth is what you actually feel, length beyond a point is unused, and firmness changes the experience more than either. Going too large is by far the more common regret, and it is the reason a lot of these end up in a drawer.
Will Form fit the Anchor harness?
Check the base diameter against the ring before assuming. Most harness disappointment is a ring and base mismatch rather than anything to do with the straps. If you are buying both together and want us to confirm the pairing, email and we will check.
Can I use these anally?
Only with a flared base, without exception, because the anus can draw an object in and has no natural stopping point. If anal is the plan, Still at $49 is the graduated set designed for it, and the anal and prostate page covers the rest properly.
Why only three?
Because most of this category is TPE, TPR or jelly, which are porous and cannot be sanitised. Once you apply a published material standard, the shelf empties fast. Three is what is left, not what we could be bothered to stock.
Is Twin only for two women?
No. It is double ended silicone with flex, which suits any two people who want to share one piece. Nothing about it assumes whose body is which.
How discreet is delivery?
Plain outer packaging with no branding or product names, a neutral sender name, and a discreet descriptor on your statement. If it arrives any other way, the order is free.

Barely products are for personal wellness and pleasure. They are not medical devices and are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent any condition.

Nearby

If this is not quite it.

Vibrators and massagersSeven pieces, if you want a motor. Anal and prostateSeven pieces, flared bases throughout. BeyondNine pieces that assume nothing about your body or partner. CouplesPieces designed to be shared.
Dildos and harnesses

Three pieces, because the rest did not qualify.

Body safe silicone, honestly described, and shipped so nobody knows what arrived.

Start with Form, $39 → Or ask which one →

Ninety day replacement · Plain packaging or it is free